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FET: Connect, Date & Explore

Ideawise Ltd. · 19,468 ratings · ★ 3.9

3.9
★★★★★
19,468 ratings
5 ★
10,541 (54%)
4 ★
3,488 (18%)
3 ★
1,893 (10%)
2 ★
534 (3%)
1 ★
3,007 (15%)
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Top complaints - extracted from 58 negative reviews

Recurring phrases mined from 1-2★ reviews. The bigger the percentage, the more users have the same problem. Fix the top 2-3 in your version and you have product-market fit on day one.

1
"account"
8 negative reviews mention this · 14% of all complaints
★★★★ "If I could give zero Stars I would. this app is absolutely horrible due to the lack of customer support. no one is human and customer support. it is literally all AI they ban you for having multiple accounts even though they won't let you d…" - Teresa Farquhar
2
"paying"
8 negative reviews mention this · 14% of all complaints
★★★★ "Warning: this app is rip off! Members who paid for a subscription can't swipe or message potential matches without paying more $$ to purchase what are called "kinky gifts" and can't message due to message filters. Very hard to connect on th…" - Michael Johns
3
"message"
7 negative reviews mention this · 12% of all complaints
★★★★ "Warning: this app is rip off! Members who paid for a subscription can't swipe or message potential matches without paying more $$ to purchase what are called "kinky gifts" and can't message due to message filters. Very hard to connect on th…" - Michael Johns
4
"delete"
6 negative reviews mention this · 10% of all complaints
★★★★ "why's there's no negative rating. your phone number and email and everything else and see if you like it. were the ever famous drop you like a hot potato for no reason to go for the guys that keep trying to hit on you and you don't like guy…" - Mark Culbertson
5
"month"
6 negative reviews mention this · 10% of all complaints
★★★★ "I don't how or why this has a 4 star rating but there are no active users. I paid $17 for the month and swiped and the most "active" user was 2 months ago. Don't waste your money or time on it. Thankfully it tells you when they were last ac…" - Jacob Guenther
6
"waste"
6 negative reviews mention this · 10% of all complaints
★★★★ "I don't how or why this has a 4 star rating but there are no active users. I paid $17 for the month and swiped and the most "active" user was 2 months ago. Don't waste your money or time on it. Thankfully it tells you when they were last ac…" - Jacob Guenther
7
"getting"
6 negative reviews mention this · 10% of all complaints
★★★★ "unable to register due to "continue" button getting stuck under phone navigation buttons make unable to tap on Samsung 23." - Emmanuel Sanchez
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"people"
6 negative reviews mention this · 10% of all complaints
★★★★ "I have been using this app for quite a while and up until recently it has been working fairly well but now all of the sudden since the last update I keep getting recommendations from people that are thousands of miles outside of my local ar…" - Fast Lane

📋 All 58 negative reviews

Every 1-2★ review we fetched. Use the copy button to grab them all for your own analysis (paste into ChatGPT/Claude with a prompt like "summarize core user problems, group by theme, ignore bugs, focus on missing features").

★★★★ Mark Culbertson 7/6/2026 v14.5.0
why's there's no negative rating. your phone number and email and everything else and see if you like it. were the ever famous drop you like a hot potato for no reason to go for the guys that keep trying to hit on you and you don't like guys but don't worry I won't be coming back to this app delete my stuff and don't take no 30 days
★★★★ Jacob Guenther 7/6/2026 v14.5.0
I don't how or why this has a 4 star rating but there are no active users. I paid $17 for the month and swiped and the most "active" user was 2 months ago. Don't waste your money or time on it. Thankfully it tells you when they were last active but it's not worth it at all when no one is on there or active.
★★★★ tim kaminski 7/6/2026 v14.5.0
this app sucks I paid for vip then was locked out and asked to verify my photo, doing everything thing the app asked of me and a week later my photo is still pending and the only response I've gotten was bssicaly like oh well we know it sucks but keep waiting. I paid and it won't let me log in and costumers service is just a dumb AI bot.................. update after this post an AI response apologies means nothing they fixed nothing
★★★★ Yinaira Díaz Santiago 7/5/2026
Still waiting for the verification process to be done, at this point I think it won't. This app probably steals hundreds of user informations and pretends to have a verification process because I can't even delete my profile.
★★★★ Teresa Farquhar 7/4/2026 v14.5.0
If I could give zero Stars I would. this app is absolutely horrible due to the lack of customer support. no one is human and customer support. it is literally all AI they ban you for having multiple accounts even though they won't let you delete your first one if you need to delete it. so fet et is not really beginner friendly for new kinksters, simply due to the fact that they have a very big lack of help
★★★★ Cassie A 7/3/2026 v14.5.0
won't let me change my username during setup. if it's this difficult just to start an account, then I'm not interested
★★★★ Michael Johns 7/3/2026 v14.5.0
Warning: this app is rip off! Members who paid for a subscription can't swipe or message potential matches without paying more $$ to purchase what are called "kinky gifts" and can't message due to message filters. Very hard to connect on the site, even as a paying member 😕
★★★★ Luke Heffron 7/3/2026 v14.5.0
stupid app. spent money on 1000 points just to not be able to do anything with it but two options and both options require me to spend more to get another 500 points in order to use the first 1000 points. but here's the catch. I have to buy 1000 coins again thats lowest option lmao joke. all the ppl flake on you and most just want u to send them some money. Terrible app. I want a refund all the points still there . Take them back. waste of time
★★★★ Mindie Kay 7/3/2026 v14.5.0
App don't work. Won't advance past choosing username.
★★★★ Skye marie Davis 7/2/2026 v14.5.0
This is the 3rd time I had to photo verify. I am starting to get irritated. because of the frequency of having to do it.
★★★★ Danny Percival 7/2/2026 v14.5.0
I tried to cancel my account, but it refuses to be canceled. So I pay the monthly fee for an app that I never use. I can't afford it anymore, but they won't cancel my membership and continue to charge me every month. BUYER BEWEAR!!!
★★★★ Alex Freeman 7/1/2026 v14.5.0
app is so bad I cant even move forward after making a username it literally does nothing when I click restarted multiple times dont even waste your time
★★★★ Hoodbreed's bigbeefybeef 7/1/2026 v14.5.0
it trips and kicks me to a screen locks me there when I go to log in
★★★★ Sam Nelson 6/30/2026 v14.5.0
bar was set on the ground and still did worse than that. ive sent several messages to customer support for assistance, but have only gotten the ai generated responses back that dont fix the issue i am having. would love to get help but apparently, only help is the faq page and the ai bot that auto responds but dont answer what i actually asked in any of the messages I sent not checks the response messages for additional info that was requested. so frustrating!
★★★★ Corey Ross 6/29/2026
You cant even look at your chat without any ad. Its a worthless app that wont even let you connect with others. instantly deleted the stupid thing.
★★★★ Brandy Meservey 6/29/2026 v14.5.0
crabby can't get into my account keep saying it needs to verify my photo for like 2 days now
★★★★ Caruggeri 6/28/2026
I got blocked and can't get out of it. good luck if you do :(
★★★★ Chad B 6/28/2026 v14.4.0
too many fake profiles everything's hidden behind a expensive paywall
★★★★ Donald Salmons 6/28/2026 v14.4.0
to many fake profiles. and to be honest I see why most men loss their mind and want to off them selves. women just don't understand
★★★★ Colin Carter 6/27/2026
all fake profiles and can't see any likes without paying for it. everything and I mean everything is behind a pay wall horrible do not waste your time and money
★★★★ Emmanuel Sanchez 6/27/2026
unable to register due to "continue" button getting stuck under phone navigation buttons make unable to tap on Samsung 23.
★★★★ Joseph Buerkle 6/26/2026 v14.5.0
WARNING: if you delete your account, the devs keep your account to pretend it has more users. They literally blocked my wife's account from her yet it is still active. Friends have "deleted" their accounts yet their profiles still exist. Plus the app is full of fake AI accounts that use Instagram models' pictures. This is literally the worst app to use. You can't message anyone either since they all have messages blocked. Do not use/pay into this.
★★★★ Ranmaru Thompson 6/26/2026 v14.5.0
if you are Black stay away from this app.
★★★★ JETMAN80 Pop Culture 6/26/2026 v14.4.0
ok I got a free week for my birthday. my thoughts this app definitely is not worth paying for at all. I clicked on one and they were last act of 21 hours ago. you have zero idea really of who's actually active. just get go on FetLife it's free and you know who's actually active. oh yeah FetLife also doesn't have ads. from the reviews I'm not the only one who feels this way. I'm sure I'll get typical response from whoever responds to all these bad reviews. "we are working on it" 😂 trash app
★★★★ Carlos Garcia 6/25/2026 v14.5.0
keep getting the "age restricted access" and not allowed to sign in as there is no icon i can select from the screen to get passed that commentary.
★★★★ Saadé Daoud 6/25/2026 v14.4.0
why play store allow these apps when they are not designed to run on Android!
★★★★ HCIC 6/25/2026 v14.4.0
THEE Single worst app EVER Created by Man!!!
★★★★ ATXGenX 6/24/2026 v14.4.0
Cannot create an account if you use proton. me domain for email... Filled with scammers... No way to translate profiles since this is not built in as it is with my web browser and cannot copy the text to submit to translate.
★★★★ Hakeem Simmons 6/24/2026 v14.4.0
the app is unusable because it tries to pimp you for making the most logical decisions. the concept of this app is enticing, but its actually pretty boring. new rule, if a dating app is trying to get you to subscribe, it means they want to keep you there in a constant cycle of paying them! it's a scam, a trap, a trick probably from the depths of hell.
★★★★ Fast Lane 6/23/2026 v10.0.0
I have been using this app for quite a while and up until recently it has been working fairly well but now all of the sudden since the last update I keep getting recommendations from people that are thousands of miles outside of my local area..... I have tried adjusting my location and the distance from me to other people and nothing changes in the app... and the app keeps freezing all of the time...... for that reason I am reading it a number one and I have decided to uninstall it from my phone
★★★★ Mara “Malady” Maeve 6/22/2026 v14.4.0
Cant even go invisible without getting paywalled. What a joke... Edit: privacy shouldnt be paywalled is my point. 🫡
★★★★ Anthony Contreras 6/22/2026 v14.4.0
Do you love getting an ad every five clicks? If so this app is for you.
★★★★ Fred Walker 6/22/2026
unable to unsubscribe from auto renewal.
★★★★ Nathan McLean 6/21/2026 v14.4.0
good luck finding a real person on here. ads for switching menus in-app?! pretty sure this app is just a front for Russian oligarchs and s traffickers.
★★★★ R 6/21/2026 v14.3.0
there is no way to edit my subscription. I do NOT want to Auto renew.
★★★★ Venus Ashbaugh 6/21/2026 v14.3.0
we are a couple and we each have an account. I started the first account and then he started but it would work properly so I went in and changed the stuff on mine and got his account going on his phone. now I have tried to go back in and put my info in and it went and changed my email back to his even though it said it had changed I'm gonna give it one more try. if it doesn't work I'm gonna delete my account and this rating will stay.
★★★★ Heather Cholette 6/19/2026
beyond rude people on here. They make judgements about you before even talking. Someone told me I dont think we would vibe. Just push the pass button and dont talk to me. I did message this user back saying I dont know how you can decide that we dont vibe without chatting and was told I validated their opinion. Beyond psycho.
★★★★ Janette Raymond 6/19/2026 v14.4.0
Used to love this app but can not get anyone to help when you have an issue. They want to keep things safe by requesting validation which I sent 3 times but still will not fix my profile.
★★★★ Brian Monger 6/18/2026 v14.3.0
it constantly sets my location in another state and very confusing to use, don't know what button to push that's not going to pop up to pay a ridiculous price per month of membership. fetlife is way better way to go and it's free. think about all the lube and latex you could buy if you didn't have to spend on an so that can't even save my location. exit: tried to remove the one start cause I'm getting alerts but if i open then it wants me to pay to see what the alert is. I'm not paying for junk
★★★★ J B 6/17/2026 v14.3.0
why the heck did you start showing me only men....? I don't want that. It literally started right after paying.
★★★★ Drew Abrams 6/16/2026 v14.3.0
cant even get past the change username screen. none of the buttons or links work.
★★★★ Brian Grazella 6/15/2026
pathetic...you pay the membership and you still can't message anybody
★★★★ Zack Ebert 6/14/2026 v14.3.0
this is basically a huge scam you pay for a subscription then you have to buy gifts to talk to the really good ppl on app everything cost cost on top of subscriptions take my advise dont waste your money adult friend finder is way better than this turd
★★★★ Denny McLain 6/12/2026 v14.3.0
just a lame app
★★★★ David Schappert 6/12/2026 v14.3.0
does anyone know how to turn off auto billing?
★★★★ Andrew 6/12/2026 v14.3.0
Can't even create an account to try this out - the default username is too long and the app doesn't do anything when I try to change it.
★★★★ Josh “Jason Voorhees Jr” Autherson 6/11/2026 v14.3.0
gotta pay to do anything in this damn thing
★★★★ Lindsay Spates 6/11/2026 v14.3.0
Fet is the worst place to find a Dom/sub relationship. It is the place to find an absolute creep/perv/abusive jerk. Not only that, but they WAY over police your content while not at all paying attention to the uncomfortable and or abusive behavior of the people pursuing/stalking you. Terrible app.
★★★★ Nicholas Anderegg 6/11/2026 v14.3.0
useless app,go no where fast.now tring to delete it and remove from it even worse,what a run around
★★★★ Naomie Smith 6/11/2026 v14.3.0
Just keeps giving me to buffering icon

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Sentiment summary

72%
Positive (4-5★)
10%
Neutral (3★)
18%
Negative (1-2★)

✓ Strong positive sentiment - clone path is harder, users like the existing app.