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HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

HER App · 66,830 ratings · ★ 4.4

4.4
★★★★★
66,830 ratings
5 ★
44,370 (66%)
4 ★
10,749 (16%)
3 ★
6,650 (10%)
2 ★
1,638 (2%)
1 ★
3,416 (5%)
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Top complaints - extracted from 27 negative reviews

Recurring phrases mined from 1-2★ reviews. The bigger the percentage, the more users have the same problem. Fix the top 2-3 in your version and you have product-market fit on day one.

1
"account"
7 negative reviews mention this · 26% of all complaints
★★★★ "i cant even log in with any of my accounts. tried contacting support but no help." - Tenshi Cuyos
2
"money"
3 negative reviews mention this · 11% of all complaints
★★★★ "I do not recommend this app. Far too many fraudulent users and some of tbe legit users are rude in their replies, ignore questions, ghost, and leave you asking why they contacted you at all. Their locations are not accurate at all. Nigerian…" - The Patriot
3
"into"
3 negative reviews mention this · 11% of all complaints
★★★★ "wish I could properly give my opinion but I can't even get into the app, every time I make an account it just reverts back to the login screen and I can't do anything, it says my account is frozen but won't give any explanation why or how t…" - Alex Driscoll
4
"frozen"
3 negative reviews mention this · 11% of all complaints
★★★★ "wish I could properly give my opinion but I can't even get into the app, every time I make an account it just reverts back to the login screen and I can't do anything, it says my account is frozen but won't give any explanation why or how t…" - Alex Driscoll
5
"dating"
3 negative reviews mention this · 11% of all complaints
★★★★ "It took me ALOT of time just to set my account up. that includes the system LAGGING persistently, the loading screen taking longer than usual, and the system freezing whenever I'm halfway into creating my account. not to mention there actua…" - Eden Seoli

📋 All 27 negative reviews

Every 1-2★ review we fetched. Use the copy button to grab them all for your own analysis (paste into ChatGPT/Claude with a prompt like "summarize core user problems, group by theme, ignore bugs, focus on missing features").

★★★★ True Austin 5/7/2026 v3.29.12
The new update ruins the dope experience you used to get on the site. You should have the old version as an option for users who prefer it. This one is type wack.
★★★★ Tenshi Cuyos 5/7/2026
i cant even log in with any of my accounts. tried contacting support but no help.
★★★★ The Patriot 5/6/2026
I do not recommend this app. Far too many fraudulent users and some of tbe legit users are rude in their replies, ignore questions, ghost, and leave you asking why they contacted you at all. Their locations are not accurate at all. Nigerians and foreigners using stolen pics rampantly. Every person that contacted me using Hers turned out to be fake or rude. They have a major issue with fake users and profiles are not verified at all. I feel I wasted my money hoping to find a bi/queer partner.
★★★★ Alex Driscoll 5/5/2026
wish I could properly give my opinion but I can't even get into the app, every time I make an account it just reverts back to the login screen and I can't do anything, it says my account is frozen but won't give any explanation why or how to fix it.
★★★★ TheClover91 5/4/2026 v3.29.12
What a scam. I have to pay just to see who's liked me?? what a useless app
★★★★ Venn 5/4/2026
Made an account and it was immediately frozen. Customer support doesn't give you any avenues to unfreeze or verify the account.
★★★★ Joan Monserrate 5/3/2026 v3.29.12
I was wrongfully kicked out of my account with no explanation. Don't recommend. Customer Service is of no help.
★★★★ Ashley Winterburn 5/3/2026 v3.29.12
EDIT: Oh btw they'll sooner ban a trans woman for existing sooner than they ban a cis man for constantly posting his privates PUBLICLY. Called out and reported cis men for breaking community guidelines and being disgusting. Got reported and my account is now frozen. Why am I essentially a glorified moderator for a platform that can't even keep me protected? I would like my account back. Maybe better moderation, eh? That would be nice. People might start having reason to rate the app higher then.
★★★★ Tru warrior 5/3/2026
TRASH
★★★★ Eden Seoli 5/2/2026
It took me ALOT of time just to set my account up. that includes the system LAGGING persistently, the loading screen taking longer than usual, and the system freezing whenever I'm halfway into creating my account. not to mention there actually Men, STRAIGHT MEN in the app like it's tinder and not a dating app exclusively for lesbians. Overall I got a 2/10 experience from this.. thing.
★★★★ Kaci Higgins (Roughanna85) 5/2/2026
I was charged a $30 subscription fee, even though I never signed up for the subscription at all! I'm disputing to get my money back!"
★★★★ Jamie Griffin 5/2/2026
had a great time on the app. switched phones. tried to get back into my account and got banned. telling me I broke community standards when I didn't do anything. won't tell me what standards I supposedly broke. says they are a safe space for all but won't let me have my account back. hmmmmm.
★★★★ Dani 5/2/2026 v3.29.11
THIS APP PAYS FOR 5 STAR REVIEWS, DO NOT TRUST REVIEWS OF THIS APP. Got an offer for a day of the premium subscription if I left a 5 star review. HER was bought in recent years by Match Group, and they have slowly removed features and hidden them behind pay walls. It's a borderline unusable app unless you pay. Incentivizing 5 star reviews is disgusting. Stripping features from one of the only lesbian dating apps is appalling. Make no mistake, I will be changing this review to 1 star.
★★★★ Abhay Awasthi 5/2/2026 v3.29.12
not for india
★★★★ Joshua 5/2/2026 v3.29.12
insanely buggy. the premium tiers are bizarre and opaque. filters and swiping glitch out constantly.
★★★★ JJ Bar 5/1/2026 v3.29.12
terrible dating app..you set your filters but still attract what you dont want..dont bother setting distance limits you will get people thousands of miles away..and catfish
★★★★ Oldouz Yso 5/1/2026
it's just a money trap
★★★★ Kendea McClain 5/1/2026 v3.29.12
it's not letting me get through
★★★★ Harlow Price Browne 5/1/2026 v3.29.12
does not filter straight men out of an app meant for lesbians? why is straight even an option here?
★★★★ Jennifer Darden 4/30/2026 v3.29.11
SO MANY BUGS & SCAMMERS!
★★★★ Sheen Hunter (#SheenTV! #SeattleFreeze) 4/30/2026 v3.29.12
More than half this app is full of trans girls or men pretending to be women. what a joke.
★★★★ Husnara Begum 4/30/2026 v3.29.12
completely unusable !!! trying to make a profile but it keeps going back to the signup page
★★★★ Jongdok 4/30/2026
Can't sign up here in the Philippines. When will this be available in Philippines, there's also gay here yk 🥹😭
★★★★★ Shantana Evans 5/6/2026 v3.29.12
I don't like the fact that you have to pay to see so much stuff. There are other apps that you don't have to do that.
★★★★★ Petra Pu 5/6/2026 v3.29.12
Die App ist von ihrem Aufbau her gut. Leider wird mein Profil immer wieder ohne Grund geblockt. Auf meine Frage nach dem Grund, erhalte ich keine Antwort.
★★★★★ Jordan Ericson 5/3/2026 v3.29.12
Crashes, loses matches, has made me create a new account multiple times
★★★★★ Adrienne Coleman 5/2/2026
Was really great initially but the latest update forces you to share location?? no thanks, denies the ability to use the app if you don't want to share your precise location. I had so many matches and convos going but I guess I'll have to lose them :(

Sentiment summary

82%
Positive (4-5★)
10%
Neutral (3★)
8%
Negative (1-2★)

✓ Strong positive sentiment - clone path is harder, users like the existing app.