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DateMyAge™ - Mature Dating 40+
Neriva Solutions Inc. · 11,607 ratings · ★ 3.3
3.3
★★★★★
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"people"
30 negative reviews mention this · 32% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Why isn’t this better?. When you enter the filters/perimeters, you still receive people OUTSIDE of those perimeters! What’s the point of filtering?! It’s also not properly price! And why do some folk have access to a “free” plan (all men, likely bots) based on act…" - CharmAndEdge
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"scam"
30 negative reviews mention this · 32% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scam app! Scam app! scam app!. This series of dating sites is a big scam. The only purpose of all popular members is to make you spend money to buy credit constantly. And they are all free users. You will not get any real love you want there except being cheated out of y…" - 用昵称想阻止我们说出真相
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"money"
27 negative reviews mention this · 29% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Thieves. This site uses lies to prevent people from getting their money back. I made a purchase and instantly asked for a refund. The rep told me I could get one and she would remove the (overpriced) credits. Then they didn’t give me a full refund. …" - Someone2.25079
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"fake"
26 negative reviews mention this · 28% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Fake people talking to you. Those guys online are all fake people and machine people, don’t trust this app" - Fkpeach
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"real"
24 negative reviews mention this · 26% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scam app! Scam app! scam app!. This series of dating sites is a big scam. The only purpose of all popular members is to make you spend money to buy credit constantly. And they are all free users. You will not get any real love you want there except being cheated out of y…" - 用昵称想阻止我们说出真相
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"profiles"
22 negative reviews mention this · 23% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Too Many Red Flags. I joined Date My Age hoping to meet real people, but my experience was disappointing. Many of the conversations felt extremely structured and unnatural, almost as if I was speaking to scripted responses rather than genuine people. The repl…" - Lollipop serves
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"credits"
20 negative reviews mention this · 21% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Thieves. This site uses lies to prevent people from getting their money back. I made a purchase and instantly asked for a refund. The rep told me I could get one and she would remove the (overpriced) credits. Then they didn’t give me a full refund. …" - Someone2.25079
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"messages"
17 negative reviews mention this · 18% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scams. Within minutes of my starting an account I had 20+ messages from men in Spain. What an utter scam." - jmh268
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"bots"
16 negative reviews mention this · 17% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Why isn’t this better?. When you enter the filters/perimeters, you still receive people OUTSIDE of those perimeters! What’s the point of filtering?! It’s also not properly price! And why do some folk have access to a “free” plan (all men, likely bots) based on act…" - CharmAndEdge
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"dating"
13 negative reviews mention this · 14% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scam app! Scam app! scam app!. This series of dating sites is a big scam. The only purpose of all popular members is to make you spend money to buy credit constantly. And they are all free users. You will not get any real love you want there except being cheated out of y…" - 用昵称想阻止我们说出真相
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"free"
12 negative reviews mention this · 13% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Why isn’t this better?. When you enter the filters/perimeters, you still receive people OUTSIDE of those perimeters! What’s the point of filtering?! It’s also not properly price! And why do some folk have access to a “free” plan (all men, likely bots) based on act…" - CharmAndEdge
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"site"
12 negative reviews mention this · 13% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Thieves. This site uses lies to prevent people from getting their money back. I made a purchase and instantly asked for a refund. The rep told me I could get one and she would remove the (overpriced) credits. Then they didn’t give me a full refund. …" - Someone2.25079
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Why isn’t this better?
When you enter the filters/perimeters, you still receive people OUTSIDE of those perimeters! What’s the point of filtering?! It’s also not properly price! And why do some folk have access to a “free” plan (all men, likely bots) based on active use? Why is there no free user trial or platform? Conceptually, this is a great mission but its execution is subpar at best.
Thieves
This site uses lies to prevent people from getting their money back. I made a purchase and instantly asked for a refund. The rep told me I could get one and she would remove the (overpriced) credits. Then they didn’t give me a full refund. They said I used credits they were supposed to remove.
First of all you pay for a bundle.. so you subscribe to their services.. but you still have to pay for everything. Their credit system is highly overpriced. Sure the people are decent and you get a lot of attention. But the amount you have to pay for the services you already pay a monthly subscription to is outrageous. The “human” representative (Joan I’m talking to you) began using automated responses to avoid actually speaking to me. Then told me she would end the chat because she was tired of trying to help me! What a complete waste of time, effort and money! This service is trash.
First of all you pay for a bundle.. so you subscribe to their services.. but you still have to pay for everything. Their credit system is highly overpriced. Sure the people are decent and you get a lot of attention. But the amount you have to pay for the services you already pay a monthly subscription to is outrageous. The “human” representative (Joan I’m talking to you) began using automated responses to avoid actually speaking to me. Then told me she would end the chat because she was tired of trying to help me! What a complete waste of time, effort and money! This service is trash.
Scam app! Scam app! scam app!
This series of dating sites is a big scam. The only purpose of all popular members is to make you spend money to buy credit constantly. And they are all free users. You will not get any real love you want there except being cheated out of your money.
SCAM DATING APP
So the company behind this apps allows beautiful foreign women to use their premium services for FREE in an effort con single/divorced men to sign up for their paid services. WHAT A SCAM!
No way to filter out people by distance. SCAM! SCAM! SCAM!
No way to filter out people by distance. SCAM! SCAM! SCAM!
Too Many Red Flags
I joined Date My Age hoping to meet real people, but my experience was disappointing.
Many of the conversations felt extremely structured and unnatural, almost as if I was speaking to scripted responses rather than genuine people. The replies came very quickly and often followed the same pattern of questions, which made the interactions feel inauthentic.
What concerned me most was that when I shared my WhatsApp number with two different profiles, I received the exact same response from both accounts: that it was "too early" to exchange numbers and that we should continue talking on the platform. Receiving identical responses from different people felt very strange.
Shortly afterward, I was unable to continue the conversations without purchasing additional credits. This left me feeling that the platform is designed to keep users paying rather than helping them make genuine connections.
I cannot say whether the profiles are real or not, but based on my experience, many interactions felt artificial and heavily restricted by the platform's credit system.
I would not recommend this service to someone looking for authentic communication and meaningful connections.
Many of the conversations felt extremely structured and unnatural, almost as if I was speaking to scripted responses rather than genuine people. The replies came very quickly and often followed the same pattern of questions, which made the interactions feel inauthentic.
What concerned me most was that when I shared my WhatsApp number with two different profiles, I received the exact same response from both accounts: that it was "too early" to exchange numbers and that we should continue talking on the platform. Receiving identical responses from different people felt very strange.
Shortly afterward, I was unable to continue the conversations without purchasing additional credits. This left me feeling that the platform is designed to keep users paying rather than helping them make genuine connections.
I cannot say whether the profiles are real or not, but based on my experience, many interactions felt artificial and heavily restricted by the platform's credit system.
I would not recommend this service to someone looking for authentic communication and meaningful connections.
Scams
Within minutes of my starting an account I had 20+ messages from men in Spain. What an utter scam.
Can’t delete profiles
Hated this app can’t read message or erase the profile just keep sending messages and unwanted emails
Fake people talking to you
Those guys online are all fake people and machine people, don’t trust this app
It’s not a dating site , it’s scam
First, it’s way too overpriced. Then, mostly ai automated responses that makes you go through you credit really fast. Then very hard to delete your account. I requested my account to be deleted but it say customer service will review it shortly. It’s been 24 hours already with no progress for deleting my profile. I don’t trust this app with my information anymore.
Don’t sign up for this
Don’t sign up for this
SCAM!!!
Do not use this dating app. They are very shady in their billing practices. I am a tech savvy 40 year old and didn’t realize they were charging me for this service. When you go into the payment settings it doesn’t show you what payment you are using, how much they are charging or when the payment is applied, there is also no way to update/change your payment method. There is no option to cancel and when you call/chat there is no way to get to a real person. They did finally send me instructions on how to cancel but they were incorrect. After the 2nd set of incorrect instructions they finally canceled my subscription on their end. This is definitely not user friendly and I would go as far to say it is praying on older adults trying to find love. Chase did refund the monthly charges but I would not mess with this company at all. There are way better dating apps out there!!
Fake scammers
I wish their was a zero star they don’t deserve star atall Don’t ever download this app there are no real human being on it ,, they are robots not real people all the reviews are fake, they will be pushing you to pay texting you fake love messages , this is my first time dropping a review in an app I dropped this because I’m very disappointed and angry it’s so terrible forcing people to pay for nothing
Automatic bot reply ,
The problem are not real ., it is automatic bot reply ., to lore you in to buy their dammmn coin , this site is a big fraud, am a victim, the people you see there are not real, you are going to get random messages, bait you in with a message just for you to buy credit which is expensive, no matter how convincing you text they are not going to give you their number, because they are not real, they are not going to leave the platform, like I said bait you in with lots of random similar messages just for you to keep buying credits,, this site is a fraud
Money Pit!
Borderline scam site! You have to pay for chatting, email or opening photos. If you’re lucky enough to make it to Free User status, you cannot contact other Free Users! They dictate who you can associate with so if there is ever a connection in the beginning, don’t hold onto hope that it will last. The Free Users are there to keep you engaged so you can keep buying credits! Also found a couple of scammers with ‘confirmed photos.’ Be careful with your wallet if you use this site!
Absolutely do not use
Absolutely positively do not even touch this app, merely for all the spam that you will get. None of the profiles are real, they are all bots, and then after I canceled my account, I got multiple spam emails from other dating sites that are using information that I put in this app. It’s been a nightmare trying to close all the fake profiles they created with my info .
Expensive
Come on, almost 1usd per message? Spent 200 usd just talking to one person. Impossible to get people out of the app and also so many AI profiles. It’s ridiculous.
Worst dating app
This is the worst dating app around. You have to pay for EVERYTHING! This app runs on credits so even if you buy a monthly subscription, you only get a certain amount of credits. And if you run out you have to wait till it refills in a month. This app even charges you to VIDEO CHAT. It’s like 6 credits for every minute.this app is a joke.
AI
Definitely not real people and you have to pay for everything, look for another app where real people actually talk like bumble.
Strawberry Shortcake Bot Farm
This is the most obvious abuse of bots and AI I’ve ever seen in digital commerce. Don’t give this company your data.
If you’d like to be catfished, this is the spot!
You pay to join. Sure. That makes sense! But then you have to pay more to actually filter, even for geography. Also, you have the option to send out a form letter to anyone who likes you. What’s the point of that generic communication?
If you are looking for S American catfish, you’ll have your pick here.
It’s a scam and a waste of money, but at least it’s cheap
If you are looking for S American catfish, you’ll have your pick here.
It’s a scam and a waste of money, but at least it’s cheap
Lo peor
Asquerosos
Scam
Choose some other app. FR
99.9% AI Bots
Constant notifications, all of them from AI Bots that say they are verified accounts. They auto message the second you even open their profile with the most random things. Won’t answer direct questions about your profile or theirs. And of course are accounts that you have to pay to talk to and that send things you have to pay to open. Very few real people, and they never respond when you try to reach out because of all the AI messages they get. Skip this app.
Clutch your pearls, I mean Wallet
Deciding to dip my toe back into the cess pool of online dating to be greeted by in app purchases that just don’t make wallet sense and bot chats galore with obvious grammatical and syntax errors. I deleted the app and canceled my short subscription and will wear hazmat gear when I ease into “free” sites which is where I should have started and given up initially.
I need my money back those people are not real I hate that only asking for money to chat every time
i want my money back
Can’t Log In
Title says it all. Can’t log in. Verification never reaches e-mail.
Golondrin
After a year and a half of utilizing the site, I cannot endorse it for those seeking serious relationships. While it serves well for casual entertainment, many users, including models with complimentary accounts, may not be genuine. When matters become serious, free members often decline in-person meetings, fabricating dramatic excuses such as family illnesses. They may pressure you for credits through recorded messages or emails, and if you do not comply, they may claim you are unresponsive. I have identified several members who work as models through independent agencies, and I have encountered profiles created by AI, which I can recognize due to my expertise in AI design.
You got it do a deep search of members profiles. I found men in social media using different names. Others posted way too professional pictures and old. I suggest you to do a mirror search or pay for catfish service and any other services. The site has no much of catfish era base on the expensive charges which avoids fake members to create profiles. Mostly real people join the website. No one meets and there’s no testimonials of people meeting.
You got it do a deep search of members profiles. I found men in social media using different names. Others posted way too professional pictures and old. I suggest you to do a mirror search or pay for catfish service and any other services. The site has no much of catfish era base on the expensive charges which avoids fake members to create profiles. Mostly real people join the website. No one meets and there’s no testimonials of people meeting.
Scam!!
Do not fall for this app, they hire influencers to make you think you have message, they only want to keep you on the app so you can run out of credit….Please don’t fall for this!!
Es una estafa
Es una estafa deberia app no aceptar que las personas puedan descargar esta app
Difficult to cancel subscription
Difficult to get out once you’re in. Very frustrating. Very expensive.
Rip off
I can’t have a decent conversation without you wanting $37 every few minutes this was a mistake
All it is a scam
They make fake profiles, people engages in conversations and you keep buying credits and then you discover those are fake profiles when you ask for proof of authenticity (in order to online date safely) they even send paperback paragraphs as messages and when you suspect something is sketchy they got all nervous and all.
They don’t answer complaining emails, and do not reimburse your money.
I engaged in a chat with an agent with my concerns online and when he saw himself busted he abandoned the chat.
My lawyer is already involved.
THIS IS SCAM!
They don’t answer complaining emails, and do not reimburse your money.
I engaged in a chat with an agent with my concerns online and when he saw himself busted he abandoned the chat.
My lawyer is already involved.
THIS IS SCAM!
Es muy malo
Cobra súper caro
This app is a scam don’t download
They either use paid actors or bots! No real connections. They need you to waste money and purchase more. Be weary this is a scam zone.
I won’t advise anyone to use this app.. SCAM
I won’t advise anyone to use this app.. SCAM
High pricing
I can’t send more than one text in a day ..it says I should pay to text or even write a letter..how am I supposed to find my match
Too less people
Can you imagine this app can only match 1-2 people in Los Angeles area? I’m here to date , not to chat with people thousands miles away. I bought the premium btw.
Messages
Not getting my moneys worth .. I jus paid for a bundle and after 5 messages I can’t send a message to someone
This app is filled with bots do not apply
I live in a very small town, signed up for this dating service. It’s all a scam. They immediately flooded me with about 30 eligible man in my area, which is a total lie. I’ve been on other dating apps and there’s hardly anybody on them at all. So this is total set up to get your money and to get you to buy minutes and chats and gifts to send to people because these are hired clientele that get you in hooked into a conversation of love so that you’ll buy minutes to talk with them. Don’t do it do not do it. What a rip off these guys should be thrown in jail!
Legal Scam
1) Agree with the three star reviewer about the pricing structure
2) I’ve been on several sites. None has had a such a high level of provocative responses I get here.
it’s very obvious that the “members” are compensated for responding.
2) I’ve been on several sites. None has had a such a high level of provocative responses I get here.
it’s very obvious that the “members” are compensated for responding.
Misleading and fake connections
I’ve chatted with someone on this site and struggling to invest in purchasing credits on here even with having a subscription. Only free user accounts only target non users accounts by pushing them into writing letters, sending stickers to “seal” agreements that are only one sided or prove your true authenticity of how you feel, and you will never ever have one person to connect with you off this app. Being a true single mother hoping real love found me was a huge mistake on this platform while the other person 4k miles away from me is happy I wake up everyday in emotional pain with a “decision”. After investing my time,true authentic self, and vulnerability to someone for 7 months to be dumped before the holidays this app truly is a set up for failure and false hope. Although the support team will reach out but truly not take your thoughts and opinions into consideration as it a money laundering scam.
Seems like a scammer platform
There’s no option to search within a geographical area. I immediately experienced multiple catfishing attempts from various locations in the distant places from women who had little to no information on their profiles. You use credits every time you reply to a message. Seems like they are just trying to get you to spend $.
Scam
Don’t bother total scam
fake and full of bots
This app is extremely misleading. The platform appears to be heavily populated by fake profiles and bots, making genuine interaction nearly impossible. Conversations feel scripted, repetitive, and unnatural, with responses that don’t align with real human behavior.
Many profiles respond instantly at all hours, avoid direct questions, and push interactions in the same predictable patterns clear signs of automation. This creates a false impression of activity and engagement that simply isn’t real.
Overall, the app feels designed to simulate interest rather than facilitate authentic connections. I would not recommend it to anyone looking for real users or meaningful interaction. Use with caution.
Many profiles respond instantly at all hours, avoid direct questions, and push interactions in the same predictable patterns clear signs of automation. This creates a false impression of activity and engagement that simply isn’t real.
Overall, the app feels designed to simulate interest rather than facilitate authentic connections. I would not recommend it to anyone looking for real users or meaningful interaction. Use with caution.
Nothing But Bots
The dating profiles on there were almost entirely fake accounts. I’ve been on just about every dating app there is, so I wanted to try this one. I cancelled my account the same day. Every profile was a bot. As soon as I would view a profile, they would immediately message me, with the exactly same type of message. Seriously like 20 within a matter of minutes. This app is just infested. When I requested a refund, they wanted proof that the accounts were fake. Don’t waste your time and money, and don’t let those scammers get you! Protect yourself, if you do decide to use it. I suggest you don’t.
Terrible
Complete scam!
Worst dating app concept and functionality!
There’s no way to set distance parameters for meeting your matches. If you get someone from the USA then you’re lucky! No customer service, some weird charges for services to read chat messages. Over all -10 stars! Ridiculous!
Scammers
I paid the money to have my account opened up. They’ve got my money, but they’re holding my account. Also, I asked to be paired with women from my area and instead of California it has women coming in there. From all over the world this is not a good site.
Scam
It is absolutely scam. Fake users and profiles. They just charge you for every single word that you type. Customer support never responds. And you can not even delete your account….
Scam
I am spending almost 500 dollars a day for credit to talk to someone I have found and I cant even get her email or number. They will just block you from accessing the email or number. Wasted of money and time
BEWARE OF BILLING, Ridiculous matches
Update: BEWARE…I cancelled my membership but they continue to attempt to renew it every month.
Aside from the fact that they nickel & dime you to pay for a subscription then buy “credits” to read messages & “credits” to reply, everyone was from another country. I’m looking for a long term relationship so how does that work when he’s in another country.!!! Absolute waste of time & money.
Aside from the fact that they nickel & dime you to pay for a subscription then buy “credits” to read messages & “credits” to reply, everyone was from another country. I’m looking for a long term relationship so how does that work when he’s in another country.!!! Absolute waste of time & money.
Waste of Money
All bots and AI profiles. Almost all of them are international profiles (which is wild considering they are all fake!) not from my area (United States). These AI profiles are created to drain your credits so you have to spend more money. Customer service is horrible and I’m having trouble canceling my subscription. Do not use this app!!!
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Sentiment summary
55%
Positive (4-5★)
5%
Neutral (3★)
40%
Negative (1-2★)