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HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating
Bloomer Inc · 62,996 ratings · ★ 4.4
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"people"
32 negative reviews mention this · 40% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Pointless. If you're a real lesbian lookin' for a woman, they will be hard to find. They have let STRAIGHT men take over like always. It is truly pointless, unless you pay. Which is too much as well, don't do it. It is for lgbtq, so straight people sh…" - Joedyjojo
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"likes"
19 negative reviews mention this · 23% of all complaints
★★★★★ "This app is so bad it’s pathetic. Literally go anywhere else. I’m shocked this app is even running still. You can’t see who likes you AT ALL. App is infested with men and the prices are outrageous. Whoever made this app is a lowlife 😭" - InconspicuousUser22
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"account"
16 negative reviews mention this · 20% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Do not join. 75% of the profiles are fake. They’re either men or someone from her posting fake profiles with very similar bios. My friend and k tested it and we both swiped right on one another and we never matched. It’s rigged completely. The minute yo…" - B anca
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"profiles"
14 negative reviews mention this · 17% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Completely overrun by global scam networks. Safety has collapsed.. Do not waste your time downloading this app, and absolutely REFUSE to pay them a single penny. HER has completely abandoned its community and allowed its platform to be taken over by industrial-scale scam operations and automated bot networ…" - Nichole D.
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"real"
13 negative reviews mention this · 16% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Pointless. If you're a real lesbian lookin' for a woman, they will be hard to find. They have let STRAIGHT men take over like always. It is truly pointless, unless you pay. Which is too much as well, don't do it. It is for lgbtq, so straight people sh…" - Joedyjojo
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"waste"
13 negative reviews mention this · 16% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Sca. If you do not pay to meet someone you will only meet scammers and the ones that are not scammers you can not see them write them or show that you are interested until you pay what a waste of time" - Nila Smilez
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"fake"
12 negative reviews mention this · 15% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scams. More fake people then real. They want you to do bitcoin or transfer money to you, but you have to pay 50 bucks in Venmo for it to come through way too many scams for me." - Aydronyx
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"money"
12 negative reviews mention this · 15% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Scams. More fake people then real. They want you to do bitcoin or transfer money to you, but you have to pay 50 bucks in Venmo for it to come through way too many scams for me." - Aydronyx
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"women"
10 negative reviews mention this · 12% of all complaints
★★★★★ "this isn't for lesbians anymore.. just like taimi, it's full of men in wigs and unicorn hunters. i came on here as a femme lesbian, seeking 🌮 NOT 🍆! every. single. like. i got was from straight 3rd seeking couples or trans women. no actual, biological, cisgender woman. it…" - sickgirlrari🍒💋
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"profile"
10 negative reviews mention this · 12% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Completely overrun by global scam networks. Safety has collapsed.. Do not waste your time downloading this app, and absolutely REFUSE to pay them a single penny. HER has completely abandoned its community and allowed its platform to be taken over by industrial-scale scam operations and automated bot networ…" - Nichole D.
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"without"
10 negative reviews mention this · 12% of all complaints
★★★★★ "This App Hates Lesbians. Utterly unusable without the $30/week subscription. Prepare to waste your limited swipes on men, men, and more men." - morrigan43
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"scammers"
9 negative reviews mention this · 11% of all complaints
★★★★★ "Sca. If you do not pay to meet someone you will only meet scammers and the ones that are not scammers you can not see them write them or show that you are interested until you pay what a waste of time" - Nila Smilez
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Scams
More fake people then real. They want you to do bitcoin or transfer money to you, but you have to pay 50 bucks in Venmo for it to come through way too many scams for me.
This app is so bad it’s pathetic
Literally go anywhere else. I’m shocked this app is even running still. You can’t see who likes you AT ALL. App is infested with men and the prices are outrageous. Whoever made this app is a lowlife 😭
Sca
If you do not pay to meet someone you will only meet scammers and the ones that are not scammers you can not see them write them or show that you are interested until you pay what a waste of time
this isn't for lesbians anymore.
just like taimi, it's full of men in wigs and unicorn hunters. i came on here as a femme lesbian, seeking 🌮 NOT 🍆! every. single. like. i got was from straight 3rd seeking couples or trans women. no actual, biological, cisgender woman. it's simply desperate men trying to play off as female to once again invade female spaces and harass us sapphic/lesbian women. lesbian women don't have any safe spaces anymore. this is sad.
Not real woman
I’m pretty sure this whole app is just men pretending to be women because every woman I matched with didn’t actually seem to be a woman. One of them also tried to pay me to meet her to do sex work. So stay safe and protect yourself.
No thanks
1. Charging you for an app is fine, but if I’m watching commercials, you are getting paid too and should I should able to see who has liked me 😂
2. Why are men on an app for HER? 😅
2. Why are men on an app for HER? 😅
Completely overrun by global scam networks. Safety has collapsed.
Do not waste your time downloading this app, and absolutely REFUSE to pay them a single penny. HER has completely abandoned its community and allowed its platform to be taken over by industrial-scale scam operations and automated bot networks. As a strong, genuine queer woman, my inbox is entirely flooded with fake profiles. Real women have either left or are too terrified of being catfished to interact.
The security verification on this app is a joke. You will constantly deal with the exact same predictable scripts: profile names written backward (Last Name First), stolen photo galleries with obvious identity discrepancies, love-bombing, and immediate demands to move the conversation to WhatsApp within 5 messages under the guise that the app is "glitching." These are coordinated fraud syndicates operating out of international click-farms, and they are using this app to target vulnerable women for financial extortion.
The absolute worst part is the developer's complete negligence. I have repeatedly emailed their support team with concrete, undeniable proof of these networks. Every single time, I am met with lazy, robotic, canned Zendesk responses claiming they are "working on it." They do absolutely nothing to protect their users, likely because they want to pad their active user metrics for investors. This app is nothing but an unmoderated hunting ground for fraudsters. Zero stars. Avoid at all costs
The security verification on this app is a joke. You will constantly deal with the exact same predictable scripts: profile names written backward (Last Name First), stolen photo galleries with obvious identity discrepancies, love-bombing, and immediate demands to move the conversation to WhatsApp within 5 messages under the guise that the app is "glitching." These are coordinated fraud syndicates operating out of international click-farms, and they are using this app to target vulnerable women for financial extortion.
The absolute worst part is the developer's complete negligence. I have repeatedly emailed their support team with concrete, undeniable proof of these networks. Every single time, I am met with lazy, robotic, canned Zendesk responses claiming they are "working on it." They do absolutely nothing to protect their users, likely because they want to pad their active user metrics for investors. This app is nothing but an unmoderated hunting ground for fraudsters. Zero stars. Avoid at all costs
Impossible to match with people
Unless you are willing to cut off an arm and a leg to pay for the INSANE premium fees you won’t be able to match with anyone
Absolute garbage
Why are you gate keeping who likes me unless I pay for it?! How are you supposed to find love at This damn rate 😤
Few real profiles.
Focus should be on mandatory verified profiles
Broken
I downloaded the app and it’s glitchy and broken, instead of letting me use it it just keeps asking me to agree to the privacy policy, which I have. Useless.
Waste of Time: No Real Women! 🙄🤦🏻♀️😤🤬
Every couple of hours your app filters the same women over and over again. No one wants to view attractive women that your app claims is in their state or close by, but when you both match the real location pop’s up and they’re millions of miles away. Most of the women on here are unattractive. The attractive one’s usually have a cute face, but are overweight. If you do run across an attractive woman she’s usually 500 to 1,200 miles away from you, and or financially and mentally unstable. Get ready for the fake profiles, because no real lesbians are on here after the owner disrespected the lesbian community. This app has turned into an app for males looking for someone to join their partner, men that want to be women, and women that want to be men. 🤨 The app is called Her! 🧐 Yeah right! Change you app’s name to Him.🥸🤯 Lesbians Run 🏃♀️ For Your Life! Finally, don’t fall for the we need you to send us a copy of your drivers license to verify your identity. Many apps collect and sell highly personal data, and the actual handling of your driver's license introduces massive security and privacy risks. No one’s on there, so they need to make money somehow. Don’t send them a copy of your drivers license! If they need to make sure you are the person on your pictures there this thing called face recognition, use it. 🤬😤👎🏼🥱
Lots of scammers asking if I have WhatsApp smh
Another scammer app where you have to pay to talk to scammers, what a waste of money you cant even pin point which are the real people anymore.
Lame lame lame
Before I subscribed as a paid member the app told me I had over 100 likes. On the other side of the pay wall, the actual number of likes was about 30. Also, on the free version, the messages area is completely bogus. The number of unverified profiles is obscene. When I finally bit the bullet for a paid subscription, it took about an hour to realize it’s all smoke and mirrors. I cancelled the subscription within an hour of signing up.
Do not join
75% of the profiles are fake. They’re either men or someone from her posting fake profiles with very similar bios. My friend and k tested it and we both swiped right on one another and we never matched. It’s rigged completely. The minute you tell them you want to FaceTime they snooze their account. I swiped right on everyone as well and only got like the fake accounts responding a couple of real people.
Keep blocking my account
I deleted my old account because I had it for awhile then I made a new one but every time I made a new account it gets blocked and I sent an email telling them that I was the real account holder but I’m still banned
SCAM - Endless fake profiles
Fake profiles run by AI chat bots
Absolutely no help or response from support team
Only good for taking money.
Absolutely no help or response from support team
Only good for taking money.
Not LEZ/QUEER
In a world where straight people do everything possible to infiltrate our queer spaces; “Her” has allowed the same to take place. No longer are we free of a space with straight men who cannot read well enough to realize that this space is not for them. No longer are we safe from couples who seek nothing more than to use us as sex toys in their relationships. No longer is this a space that is closely monitored enough than to allow profiles that allow no face photos, degrading bios or any of the other results things I’ve seen lately. You might as well just be Tinder at this point because the bar is gone and you’re doing a disservice to this community.
can't filter likes
huge waste of my time at first because i couldn't set filters for my swipe pool. i'm monogamous and i had to wade through a sea of folks I’m not compatible with when i could just filter them out with the existing flags, as a premium user. this doesn't fix itself until i hit the minimum number of likes that i sent. that sucked.
I can't even filter my likes? you can't even make likes disappear as a premium user???? overall very user unfriendly experience even when you pay :/ especially compared to other apps
I can't even filter my likes? you can't even make likes disappear as a premium user???? overall very user unfriendly experience even when you pay :/ especially compared to other apps
Connecting
Pay money or see lots and txt none
Bots only
Holy moly this app is nothing but bots posing as sugar mommies and fake accounts. Really too bad, this app used to be great.
😡
I’ve been trying to sign up now for the past 2weeks I’m not recieving code 😡
This App Hates Lesbians
Utterly unusable without the $30/week subscription. Prepare to waste your limited swipes on men, men, and more men.
Bots bots bots
There were wayyy too many bots and scammers on this app. I also felt like the quality of people on this app was a lot lower than competitors. Had two really awful dates from here and have decided to delete it.
FULL of fake profiles
For ever real person, there are 20 fake people.
Verification still pending
I paid $30 for a premium membership, but hours later it’s still verifying my account. I can’t check to see my likes. The app is not intuitive to use.
Unacceptable
I attempted to create an account and was denied. Customer service first told me I was too young, then said I didn’t live in an area that supported the app, then told me I violated community guidelines. I’m 40, live in CA, and was never even able to create a profile which means I couldn’t have violated community guidelines. The responses I received from customer service were terse and robotic and would never answer any of my questions. I’m incredibly disappointed in the unacceptable customer service. I don’t recommend this app.
“Her”
Don’t get excited it’s 90% dudes with cocks as profile pictures.
This APP is a SCAM
It’s flooding with scammers. Including people who are involved in “pig butchering”. Look it up if u dont know. I had signed up for one week and encountered 9 scammers. They can FaceTime with AI and some even have paid actors! Please be cautious.
They want a picture of my ID
Have tried a few apps and this one has been my favorite, but I got busy and deleted the app and my account for a while. When I logged back in I got a message saying my account was on hold for breaking the community guidelines. When I contacted support they said it was because I didn’t meet the age requirements (I’m 21) and to respond with a picture of me holding a government-issued ID proving I was of age, which I’m absolutely not doing. Tired of these companies violating my privacy. The idea that I would ever care about a dating app enough to do that is laughable to me
the point of the app being free?
supposed to use this app to swipe & match with people, how can you match with people if we cant even see likes? shouldnt have to pay $20 for the bare minimum dating app feature you weirdos. I got 90 likes in 3 days on this app and 0 matches because I have yet to been able to go through my likes without plat. unbelievable. shouldnt have say the app is free if its unusable waste of a scam!!!
Overflowing with bots, scammers and men
Got so many unverified accounts
Excessively inclusive.
There’s a shortage of Lesbians on this app. Inclusivity is good and all but why can’t we just have an app for gay women? Something similar to Grindr. There is too many men and not enough LGBT.
Incredibly annoying that I won’t stop getting messages from the HER app in my inbox. And no, you cannot delete or archive the messages.
Incredibly annoying that I won’t stop getting messages from the HER app in my inbox. And no, you cannot delete or archive the messages.
PAYWALL PAYWALL PAYWALL
I enjoy using this app until i get hit with a paywall with every little thing i do. And the subscriptions for this app aren’t cheap or affordable at ALL even for the LOWEST tier.
I can’t even see my likes without waiting 7 hours. At that point, i doubt the people who liked me even remember liking me, and on top of that, they just get buried under other likes as the app only shows you the most recent without paywalling you.
I’d find this app at least 3 stars more enjoyable if everything wasn’t paywalled.
I can’t even see my likes without waiting 7 hours. At that point, i doubt the people who liked me even remember liking me, and on top of that, they just get buried under other likes as the app only shows you the most recent without paywalling you.
I’d find this app at least 3 stars more enjoyable if everything wasn’t paywalled.
Scam!!
From all the fake profiles to the support taking your money & not giving you what you paid for. Support doesn’t answer you after they steal your money. Worst dating app ever!!!
Too many bots
Everyone is a bot or sugar mommy like it is insane. There are way too many bots!! I wouldn’t recommend if you’re actually wanting connection with real people!
Lots of fake profiles
I have never seen so many fake profiles on a single app. They should start making it mandatory to verify both the person's face and their official ID.
lesbian?
Why can’t we have anything that others don’t feel entitled to??? No one demands that gay men open their spaces to everyone; be open to dating non-men; or refrain from calling themselves gay! And why? Well misogyny, that’s why. The owners of HER, like the world for all of HIStory, have decided that we lesbians don’t actually exist, or shouldn’t anyway; that our orientation is somehow an ‘exclusionary preference.’ There aren’t more of us on the app because we’re not allowed to be who we are. #shame
Absolutely HORRIBLE customer service
I'm done trying with this app. I am OF AGE, with appropriate photos, an appropriate bio, and I get banned TWICE. When I appeal, I get sent an automated customer support notice that asks me to provide my ID, and then does NOT verify my ID and calls it fraud. This app is genuinely horrible at customer service, and the dating pool is genuinely sucky and disgusting. Do not download.
The worst app I have ever used.
The worst app I have ever used. Wasn’t able to fully set up my profile before my account was frozen for no good reason. Waited days for a response from support. Then was still unable to login to my account. Finally was able to log in only to be booted off not 5 minutes later for “breaking community guidelines” even though I was trying to finish setting up my profile. Extremely disappointing, a total waste of time. And the whole app seems to be run by glitchy robots. Genuinely the worst app I have ever used. Do not waste your time downloading this.
Unprofessional/Cis men
For some reason my account was flagged for thinking I was a catfish. (Can’t help it) so I had to email a photo of my ID. Ok I did that. I guess that wasn’t enough so they asked for a selfie or a more clear photo of my ID. So I sent a selfie again AS THEY ASKED. And was met with “sorry the decision is already final” like why’d you even ask then? I’m not too upset as there wasn’t many people near me but I kept getting SO many cis men creeping their way on this app and constantly had to report them. Do better. Super unpleasant app.
Let someone catfish.
While male pretending to be a female somehow had way too many photos of them and got ahold of my info. Be careful. Be smart.
Full of bots and incredibly stingy to nonpayers
You get FIVE views on people who like you per DAY. If *any* of them are bots, you just wasted one of your five views and have to wait another 24 hours to see anyone else. the bots ALWAYS have premium so they will always appear above any real nonpaying people. 4 out of my 5 views today were bots. Horrible design.
Can’t see likes
You can’t see likes so you can’t match easily. It’s hard to get any matches, especially if you get a lot of likes because it’s impossible to go through them in the free plan. There is no free filter for preferences so the pool is pretty bad.
Greedy app and not good
Well I had this app for one day and it seemed like a cool option to find other lesbians, but I quickly realized it’s not a good app. You can’t see any of your likes unless you pay 20$ and then they ban your account if you put your insta in your bio to try and actually talk to people. Don’t recommend there’s better options out there tbh
Absolute Garbage.
This app is absolute trash. It is literally all fake profiles. Total waste of time. I haven’t spoken to a single actual person. Everyone that messages me account is “no longer available” shortly after the hello. It’s insane. Don’t waste your time.
0/10 Would not recommend
Don’t pay for this app. Customer service is nonexistent.
Do not download
This app is absolute trash. The developers have clearly stopped trying, and it’s become a pay to play. There’s men all over this app, as well as scammers and bots. Only verified accounts are somewhat trustworthy, but those are few and far in between.
Horrible
First time I used this it was the least user friendly dating app possible. Recently redownloaded and my account got placed on temporary hold the instant I created a profile and three weeks later I’m still on “temporary” hold. Does it think I’m a bot or something. Spoiler alert, I’m not a bot!
Horrible app
This app has gotten worse and worse over the years, in the past I was able to see friend requests and matches now I can’t. Why is there a subscription to look at people who matched with you or even get a request? Make it make sense. People come here to connect with others but it’s limited because of these stupid subscriptions. At this point it’s all about money there’s nothing genuine about this app. And another thing is that there are more Cis men/ Trans women/ Trans men on this app now than biological women, and not to mention the numerous fake accounts that are also verified. Management hasn’t done nothing to change the environment and culture on the app. It’s called HER not HIM or TRANS. Don’t call the app HER if you’re going to include the entire gay community. Everyone shouldn’t be included in lesbian women spaces, lesbians women deserve to have a place to connect with other lesbian women without feeling uncomfortable, and skeptical about who is on the other side of that profile.
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Sentiment summary
85%
Positive (4-5★)
7%
Neutral (3★)
9%
Negative (1-2★)